General statistics (Survey)

To have some general statistics I asked that everyone participating to share some general information about themselves. I thought that these were some of the factors that affect partners (wives/ girlfriends) of pilots such as how much time the pilot is away on monthly basis or annually, does the wife or girlfriend work outside of the home, how new or established is the relationship, how new or established is the pilot in his career. I think that all of these factors affect how we responded to the survey questions. More importantly I think that such factors as age, length of relationship and how long the pilot has been flying commercially and especially how much he is gone affects how we react to every day joys and challenges, how we raise our children and how we react to our pilot. So check out the data in the Survey.

Wives worry, then we cope – that is what must be done (Survey)

 So many people say: “Oh it must be so exciting being married to a pilot?” – it is - not always the good kind of exciting. For the big jet pilots and the helicopter pilots even though some of the dangers are different (the heli pilots don’t really worry about terrorism acts, even though there have been kidnaping incidences many many years ago) there is still that pesky weather to worry about and unexpected maintenance issues. So as I received this picture from Mr. Right I thought “This is a perfect time to do the “Are you afraid or worried when your husband is flying?” and how do you cope bit of the survey”.

I know he is not flying in this crap - see the oh so safely tied down helicopter above? Well the scary thing is that he is out there on the oil rig just hanging out with all the other guys who have to weather the weather with him and find shelter in the metal  buildings on an long stem suspended over the angry ocean – not a great bed night story.

I am hoping that all is well while the most terrifying scenarios play out in my head so how do you deal with them apples? So many of us have worries and here is what they are. Cont in Survey

My Thanksgiving table

Once you marry there is a joining of traditions and after so many years the trials and errors come together to form a tradition that is just yours. This was our 14th Thanksgiving together as a married couple. I pretty much have the turkey and stuffing, mashed potatoes, veggies, Wessel down. I am experimenting with yams and breads. So this is what we did this year for our Thanksgiving.

Of course the stuffed turkey – I use my mother –in-laws stuffing, which is her mother’s stuffing and it is a very simple yet yummy stuffing that to the whole family screams Thanksgiving and serving a turkey with any other stuffing is sacrilege. It is white bread with onions, celery and spices –mm mmmm delish. The turkey is a slowly roasted bird that has been stuffed, rubbed and injected with butter, it is juicy and golden and yummy.

Mashed potatoes the simple is good sometimes. I make the simplest mashed potatoes, potatoes butter and milk, little bit of salt. I make them to taste and they are always creamy and smooth, since I mix them with the mixer until they are fluffy.

Yams this year was another experiment. My husband does not like yams, I love yams and would like for him to share with me in the yam yumminess. My father-in-law makes the yams with butter and brown sugar, very simple very sweet very good, this year’s recipe was from (here) and it had wonderful flavor from the mixed in nutmeg and Scotch – he was not to excited. My friend makes a yam casserole that Mr. Right just loves but it has pecans and  am very allergic so I need to find a way to make them as yummy and crunchy minus the pecans. There is always next year.

Green beans – Just plain steamed green beans with a bit of butter, son’s all time favorite.

Homemade rolls – I love bread, it is my weakness and lately I have been getting into baking breads from scratch. I don’t have a bread machine so I do t the old fashion way. Bread is funny it takes patience and more patience but then when it comes out of the oven and fills your home with that fresh bread smell it is worth all the effort. So this year I tried a new recipe again from and the rolls were very good diner rolls, on the sweet side but fluffy and delicious.

Cranberries – all about the canned jellied cranberries

Wassail – I got this recipe from a friend and this a Thanksgiving must in our house and totally our tradition as neither of us have had Wassail when we were kids. It is just the perfect mix of apple juice, pineapple juice and honey with some lemon. It just warms your heart.

Apple pie – classic apple pie, I have yet to find a recipe where the crust is just flaky enough but this one was good sweet and flavorful absolutely mouthwatering with vanilla ice cream.

Pumpkin pie – over the years I have tried many different recipes from fresh pumpkin to canned pumpkin and everything in between and our favorite is by far the Libby’s canned pumpkin baked from the back of the can recipe with homemade crust.  

Every year I think about how to improve and add to our Thanksgiving feast, trying new squash recipes which I am yet to discover one that is not bland and boring or mixing things up but there are some staples without which it is just not Thanksgiving dinner. I am glad that we did ours a little early so that Mr. Right could enjoy all they traditional dishes, we will do it again on Thursday there is no such thing as too much celebrating.

Holiday's a knocking (Survey)

Image courtesy of google

I know that with the Holidays just around the corner many of us wonder how to celebrate when our pilot is away. Should we wait and celebrate when he returns or celebrate together before he goes to work? Should we celebrate on the actual holiday regardless if he is or isn’t at home?
In our family we will be celebrating twice this year once this Sunday before Thanksgiving so that daddy can be a part of a Thanksgiving dinner and enjoy the meal with us, and once on the actual Thanksgiving day. So it will be double the fun double the yum.

I have asked this question in the Children section of the survey – How do you compensate when daddy is away on special occasions birthdays, holidays ect? I think it is appropriate to pull the wisdom from this particular section right now since Thanksgiving is just few days away. Survey

Survey is preparing for takeoff

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Please bare with me while I compile and organize the result. As per so many of your requests I will post what I have a little at a time and want to share as I am creating this so that all of you can have some input if there is something you want to see or if you have a better idea of presenting the results. For ease of sharing information please post your comments to Pilot Wives Share this is for all of us so please feel free to share your thoughts. I am still collecting surveys and will continue to do so. I have posted a little today and the page will grow as I add more and more from the survey. I want it to be easy to read and view so there will be charts, tables and bullets as well as little narratives. I am very excited about this and can’t wait to see this survey take shape. So have fun with me ;0) and visit the NEW page Survey

Survey this and that

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It has been a year since I began this survey project (well at the end of this month). My original goal was to collect 100 surveys in a year and then publish the results of how the life style affects the wives and children. The time is upon me to make some decisions about this survey. So here is where I am and what I am thinking about.
I have 23 completed survey so 77 short of my goal, however the surveys I have have some amazing wisdoms in them that I would like to share and I feel guilty just storing this information on my hard drive. I thought about maybe continuing to collect the surveys and publish what I have up to this point. I would create a separate page on this blog and post the information I gathered this far, then as new surveys come in I would update the page. There are benefits to this and there are also negatives.
The benefits:
  • Results would be posted
  • Information bank would continue to grow
  • As the industry changes the survey would change
  • The survey would be a living reflection of what is happening in the industry
  • Having some things out there may encourage other wives and partners to add their few cents
The negative side of this:
  • Some of the later surveys maybe skewed by the information that is published
  • Since there is no end to collecting the information this will not be a very scientifically accurate survey (but I really don’t know that it matters)

So since this is for all pilot wives and not just for me. What are your thoughts on publishing now yet continuing to collect. Penny for your thoughts.


Krakow was one of our favorite cities in Poland. My husband's number one so much so that he is very excited to go back and spend a little more time there next time we are in Poland.
A little history lesson on this awesome city. Krakow was Poland's Capitol for oer 500 years, it has been in existence since the 7th century as a settlement and then grew into the most amazing science and art center in the country. The architecture is amazing and the history can be felt everywhere you turn. Cont. in Poland -Polska

Pilot gone makeover guru

When we bought the house we live in we hated just about everything inside with the exception of the layout, location and exterior. We worked very hard to get the house to the way we liked it, added a wall here, replaced all flooring and repainted just about every wall in the place and now outside as well. The last three breaks Mr. Right has been back to full time remodel mode in the house.
First came the siding. When we returned from Europe the siding was is horrid shape. A section of it started to buckle before we left, but due to the crazy drought the buckling siding started to fall off the house eeep.
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So my Mr. Right got onto a ladder and replaced it then repainted the entire house. Behold it’s glory.
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After the outside was all done and oh so perfect (I go outside to stand in the street just to stare at it – once in a while but still). We inherited a chair snuggler and thus came the library remodel. Mr. Right and I are big readers he reads history books, I read trash novels that teach nothing but are fun and entertaining. Sometimes I wish I had the determination to read the knowledge filled books he reads but frankly I read for entertainment and the thought of having to read the dry dry sad history books make me want to cry, so I just listen to his stories and learn this and that from him (I am bad I know). Anyway back to the library with ever growing number of books we were looking to expand and this is what it was before.
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After we sold the couch and the snuggler arrived we went searching for book shelves and this is the result of our efforts. Ok being honest his efforts and my observation from afar as I figured most of there hard cover “ancient” texts are his so let him select their “home”. As long as I get to snuggle by his side in front of the fire and read all is well. So without putting it off any further my Pilot – home makeover guru built this.
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I love love love it it is so cozy and warm and relaxing. Ahh and the timing is just perfect with winter just around he corner.

Halloween, move, project

We have been on the move move , move. Let me share some fun pictures from Halloween and our pumpkin carving, then I will fill you in a bit on my parents-in-law move to Texas and my project.
We had a pumpkin carving event at our house. It was great we had wonderful snacks such as ghosts and witch hats and witch fingers, we made them the day before see Halloween preparations. Cont. In the life of the whirly Wife